L.A. Girly Book Club: Fiction, food, and fun excursions

What is a book club without appies and drinks? Well, I guess it would still be a book club, technically. But if you prefer your literary discussions to take place over wine and cheese plates at a fun spot in the city, join the L.A. Girly Book Club.

The Girly Book Club’s actually a global group, with groups meeting from Seattle to Singapore, all discussing the same book. Most of the novels are by female authors, ranging from the more literary to chick-lit-ish to thrillers like Liane Moriarty’s What Alice Forgot.

Last month, the pick was Yaa Gyasi’s Homegoing (my microreview here)! The L.A. chapter’s organized by Janie, who picks out a different fun bar or restaurant for each meeting. I joined eight other girls at Vinoteque in West Hollywood for a lively conversation about identity and singing and feminism and work. At the end of the meeting was a raffle for a copy of the following month’s book — then we chatted and socialized over more drinks before calling it a night.

With most of the girls in their twenties and thirties, this book club skews much younger than say, the West Hollywood Women’s Book Club. And — thanks to a $5 fee per meeting, paid in advance via Meetup — the girls RSVP and show up!

One extra fun aspect of the Girly Book Club is the followup event planned between the book club meetings. Often, the events tie in to the latest book. All the cookies in My Grandmother Asked me to Tell You She’s Sorry, for example, inspired a cookie snack break at the Milk Jar. The followup for Homegoing — a girly brunch at The Butcher, The Baker, The Cappuccino Maker — was less related to the book but fun nonetheless —

I got the vegan grain bowl, with lentils and quinoa, marinated tofu, avocado, alfalfa, carrot salad, and bright summer citrus —

Want to join the next meeting? July’s Girly Book Club Meeting happens Wed., July 19 at Mardi Restaurant. We’ll be chatting about The Unseen World by Liz Moore. See you there!

L.A. Girly Book Club. Different locations around the city. Third Wednesday of every month at 7 pm.

Earlier:
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One book review in The Los Angeles Review

The very last print issue of The Los Angeles Review came in the mail a few weeks ago — and in the back pages is a book review of Nadine Darling’s She Came From Beyond! written by yours truly —

I’m so glad that The Los Angeles Review has now gone all digital (there’ll still be a best-of print annual), because that means the reviews get published in a more timely manner. Seriously — I turned in this review for LAR back in April 2016!

More than a year later, it’s finally made its way into print — along with some other great reviews plus fiction and poetry. My favorite piece in this issue was a short fiction piece called “Stories About Men” by Rhian Sasseen:

I shouldn’t have strayed–but then again, what is literature beyond the stories of cheating wives? When that man standing beside me at the birthday party shrugged and confided, “I don’t really understand what women see in men,” I had to show him.

You can buy the last print issue of The Los Angeles Review online — and read and submit your work for future issues online.

3 Summer smoothie bowls for every diet — to match your current read

Summer is my favorite season because it’s the time for all things cool: sundresses, Shakespeare in the park, and smoothie bowls for breakfast.

If you follow me on Instagram, you know I like to match my smoothie to my current read. Want to do the same while procrastinating on that novel you’re working on? Here are three recipes to get you started!

Yes, three recipes — not one — because if you’re like most Angelenos, you’re likely avoiding one macronutrient or another for some strange personal reason. I won’t judge. Pick from high-carb, high-fat, or high-protein — all options raw, vegan,and gluten-free, of course.

The directions for all three bowls are simple: blend the base ingredients in a high speed blender, then top with the toppings. About the matching part: Basically, all three bowls have a neutral-colored base — which you can then give color by adding fruits or greens or cacao, then more color by adding toppings of your choice ranging from more fruit to granola to shredded coconut.

For all the carbs: Strawberry nice cream bowl

Think no one eats carbs anymore? Think again! High carb low fat — or whole starch low fat — is a thing these days, as evidenced by the popular #hclf and #wslf hashtags on Instagram, mostly deployed by millennial vegan fans of McDougall Diet.

Base
1.5 frozen bananas
5 frozen strawberries (or fruit of desired color)
1/3 c water or more for desired consistency

Toppings
Fresh strawberries and bananas
Shredded coconut

For good fats: Blueberry chia blast bowl

This bowl is very low on sugar and carbs, and is made with a trifecta of good fats — avocado, chia, and coconut. Super creamy and filling!

Base
1/4 avocado
1/4 c chia
1/3 c almond milk or more for desired consistency (or other milk of choice)
1/2 c blueberries (or fruit of desired color)
vanilla, cinnamon, and stevia or other sweetener to taste

Toppings
Fresh bananas and figs
shredded coconut

For protein: Creamy chocolate banana bowl

This stuff seriously tastes like chocolate ice cream to me. Experiment with different protein powders until you find one you love; I like vanilla rice protein powder because it’s easy on the digestion and fairly neutral in terms of taste. if you use a chocolate flavored protein powder, you can skip the cacao. I adapted this bowl from a recipe by Paleo in Heels, who’s got lots more smoothie recipes on her blog!

Base
1 frozen banana
1 c frozen cauliflower
1/4 avocado
1 Tb cacao
1 serving vanilla protein powder
1/3 c almond milk or more for desired consistency (or other milk of choice)
vanilla, cinnamon, and stevia or other sweetener to taste

Toppings
strawberries
shredded coconut
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Now you’re cool for the summer. Let me know if you try any of these —

July giveaway: Dana Johnson’s Break Any Woman Down

*** Winner selected! Congratulations to Calin in Los Angeles! ***

The first time saw Dana Johnson was on a panel at Skylight Books. I can’t remember what the panel was actually about, but I remember clearly what Dana said about her MFA experience — that she didn’t go right out of college, she waited a while until she was really hungry, ready. Then during her years at Indiana University, she wrote the stories in her first collection, Break Any Woman Down, winner of the prestigious Flannery O’Connor Award for Short Fiction.

That’s pretty much the exact opposite of what I did, which was go to grad school at USC straight out of college and use the time as a sort of prolonged adolescence — the totally unproductive kind with lots of flailing around and remarkably little writing.

If only I’d waited to go to USC until Dana started teaching there! Then I’d have been the recipient of her sage advice — though whether or not I would have done anything with it at that point, who knows.

That said, everything’s turned out fine —

But back to Dana.  Break Any Woman Down is a complex and provocative collection of short stories, often starring characters in the margins of society.  A black stripper tries to figure out what she wants in her relationship with a controlling white porn star. A woman defiantly goes to bars alone, over her daughter’s protests. They’re stories of power and acquiescence, stubbornness and change — all cutting across lines of race, class, and gender.

My favorite story is the first one, “Melvin in the Sixth Grade.” Avery, a young black girl whose family just moved from South L.A. to West Covina to get away from the gangs, becomes friends with a white boy called Melvin. He too’s new to town, and with his bell bottoms and Oklahoma drawl, doesn’t fit in. When Melvin gets in a fight, Avery’s loyalty is tested — with heartbreaking consequences.

This story just tackles so much — from the petty allegiances of grade school and the giddiness of childhood crushes to the casual racism absorbed by children as a matter of course and the brutal dislocation that comes from shifting social classes. What Dana reveals about education is truly thought-provoking — how the learning of standard English, even the “correct” pronunciation of words, can be a sociocultural marker that connects and divides, confers privilege as well as exiles us from those we’re closest to.

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Come back mid-month to read a Five Firsts interview with Dana Johnson.

Cake Time interview with The Rumpus

Thank you to The Rumpus for interviewing me about Cake Time and writing! Here’s a quick excerpt from A Funny Inevitability: In Conversation with Siel Ju:

Rumpus: You ended the novel on this note of uncertainty with the character in this common adult situation, with someone who doesn’t want to define the relationship. And your main character is suppressing an urge to laugh at life’s absurdity. How did you decide that was where you wanted to end the novel?

Ju: I think I wanted to leave it like a continuing journey, because real life doesn’t have neat tied up ends. Chick lit generally ends with a happy ending of the girl gets the guy, so I wanted this book to be somewhat in contrast to that. I wanted the sense that she had learned something, but that there are other things that are not learnable in a way, because life isn’t over.

Read the whole thing over at The Rumpus. Talking to Stephanie Siu was a blast — I wish I could have hung out with her while I was in New York last month. Follow her on Twitter at @openstephanie!

June book reviews: Mostly New York stories

Brief reviews of books by contemporary authors I read this month — along with photos of what I ate while reading. The list is ordered by the level of my enjoyment:

The Lottery and Other Stories by Shirley Jackson (FSG, 1949)

“They want attention and praise and sometimes they’ll do almost anything.”
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Fuck I love Shirley Jackson. I love the creepy ways she reveals the cruel violent minds of children especially — a boy excited by the thought of strangling then chopping up his little sister to bits, two sibling filled with glee at the prospect of killing the family dog with a collar of nails. There’s also a story about a woman who goes on vacation to NYC — and slowly starts freaking out at the random violence of the city until she’s immobilized by anxious panic attacks. Obviously, this was the perfect read before flying to NYC on book tour!

Breaking and Entering by Joy Williams (Vintage, 1988)

“Years pass as moments do. And the moments of the past are stones behind her, over which she stumbles forward.”
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I love Joy William’s writing: spare, exact, disturbing. Liberty and Willie are drifters, breaking into strangers’ vacation homes and living in them a while — but Willie is turning stranger and stranger, spouting weird philosophies and disappearing for days at a time. There’s the disconnectedness of vacation communities, the intimate revelations of total strangers, and sudden, brutal acts of violence. Fantastic summer reading.

You Are a Badass at Making Money: Master the Mindset of Wealth by Jen Sincero (Viking, 2017)

“People are to money what a French fry is to ketchup: They’re just the conduits.”
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Jen Sincero’s latest book is inspiring and motivating. I actually picked up Jen’s first book, You Are a Badass, a few years ago because she and I have the same agent. She has made him a lot more money than I have so far but that will change now that I’ve read this book and am putting it into action!

Washington Square by Henry James (Harper and Brothers, 1880)

“She watched herself as she would have watched another person, and wondered what she would do.”
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The way Henry James finely sketches his characters really carried me through this novel about a plain but rich girl who falls in love with a cute guy — who ditches her once it’s clear the girl’s father would disinherit her should she marry him. Spoiler: The girl then snubs her father as well as all other men who express an interest in her, living out her days alone with her aunt. In a way it could be read as a feminist novel — or a cautionary tale against the impulse to withdraw / reject people after a painful event….

Brooklyn by Colm Tóibín (Scribner 2009)

“For each day, she thought, she needed a whole other day to contemplate what had happened….”
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Set post WWII, Colm Tóibín’s Brooklyn tells the story of Eilis, a young Irish girl from a tiny town who is made to leave everything behind and move to Brooklyn for a job at a department store. In many ways Eillis’s life — while with hardships — is a charmed one, with kind friends and strangers often going out of their ways to help her out, with one happy opportunity after another coming her way. I would guess not all immigrants to the US in that time had things go so smoothly. Incidentally I got to hear Colm speak at a Live Talks LA event a few weeks ago, which inspired me to pick up this work.

Hourglass: Time, Memory, Marriage by Dani Shapiro (Knopf, 2017)

“The city still feels like mine…. Wherever I go–in every neighborhood–I catch younger versions of myself disappearing around corners.”
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Dani wrote this about revisiting New York in this latest memoir — a fragmentary and often touching mediation on the way marriage shapes you and your partner. Even for a memoir, there was a lot more navel-gazing in this book than I’d expected — Dani spends a lot of time worrying out her Google search results and Instagram feed — but I enjoyed its many poignant, intimate moments.

Hemingway’s Girl by Erika Robuck (Berkeley, 2012)

“The blue of the sky and the water were almost the same, and the breeze blew the fresh saltwater smell over her.”
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Hemingway’s Girl came in The Book Drop, and is about a young girl who starts working as a maid for Earnest Hemingway and his second wife Pauline when they’re living in the Key West. There’s lovely ocean scenes, race and class conflicts, and a lot of sexual tension.

The Gaffer by Celeste Gainey (Red Hen, 2015)

“The house fills with my ringing. / You rise to answer.”
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I got to read with Celeste in Philly earlier this month, which is when I picked up this slim volume. Her poems are about light and filmmaking and love and self-discovery — and Los Angeles, where Celeste lived for a while —

After the Dam by Amy Hassinger (Red Hen, 2016)

“It seemed that they were running down the knife edge of time, both surrounded by and creating the pulsing, tremulous unfolding of it, striving to touch it, hold it, taste it even as it passed into memory.”
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I got to read with Amy Hassinger earlier this month in Brooklyn! Her novel is about a young mother who suddenly runs away from her husband to visit her grandma at her childhood home. There, the mother reconnects with a long-ago ex, questions her marriage, and gets involved in an emotional dispute over family land….

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