My favorite 11 books of 2018

I used to post brief reviews of books I’d read on a monthly basis — until January this year, when I abruptly stopped for a hodgepodge of vague reasons ranging from getting a “regular job” to focusing on my novel to investing more in my relationships. But I couldn’t let 2018 go by without sharing books I loved that I think you might love too.

Here are my 11 favorite books of the year — along with photos of what I ate or drank while reading them. Why 11? I like the number better than 10, perhaps because my birthday’s in November. The list is ordered by the level of my enjoyment:

Severance by Ling Ma (FSG, 2018)

“The past is a black hole, cut into the present day like a wound, and if you come too close, you can get sucked in. You have to keep moving.”
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This apocalyptic novel is insanely good. The world is in the grip of a new disease called Shen Fever, which causes people to mechanically repeat rote tasks they did in their lives lives, then after a few weeks, to die. Most of the US is decimated over the course of a few months — and a small caravan of survivors band together to travel to a safe house of sorts — but the guy leading them slowly reveals himself to be a religious autocrat.

But this novel is so much more than an apocalyptic story — it’s the story of Candace, a twenty-something girl who moved to NYC after the death of her parents, her memories of family, her loneliness, her search for a sense of being — and it’s about our world, the rote repetitiveness of our jobs, our lives, and the meaning and purpose of all of it.

The Story of the Lost Child by Elena Ferrante, trans. Ann Goldstein (Europa Editions, translated to English 2015, originally published 2014)

“Everything moves. A wish, a fantasy travels more swiftly than blood.”
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I put the last of Elena Ferrante’s Neapolitan novels here, but really, I loved all four of them. They remind me of how short but also how long a life is — long enough for the things that matter to you to completely change, for relationships that seemed unalterable to alter dramatically, for fortunes to reverse and reverse themselves again, long enough really to live several lives, each almost unrecognizable from the rest. I want to remember this — it seems like an important lesson in life — not to hold on to things so tightly because I have no idea what will happen, how I will change or be changed.

The Power by Naomi Alderman (Viking, 2017)

“The power to hurt is a kind of wealth.”
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The Cosmopolitan blurb on the back of this book calls The Power a cross between The Hunger Games and The Handmaid’s Tale — and I agree! The premise is this: In an age not too far from today, girls start developing this power that lets them discharge electric charges from their fingertips — powerful enough to hurt, torture, and even kill. Basically, women become more physically powerful than men — a change that alters all the gender dynamics, from who gets elected to office to who is expected to join the army to how couples have sex.

To be clear, this is not a novel about how the world would be better if ruled by women. In fact, Naomi Alderman’s view of human nature is sometimes quite bleak, with people hurting, subjugating, and murdering people — just because they can. But it’s a powerful read that’ll make you question all the assumptions you didn’t even know you had about men and women, what is natural biological evolutionary or even socioculturally ordained.

Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata, Trans. Ginny Tapley Takemori (Portobello Books, translated into English 2018)

“I was taking on the form of a person that their brains all imagined as normal.”
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An oddball woman who’s worked part time at a convenience store all her life — a job that she actually likes that gives her a sense of purpose in life — tries to change to fit in better in a world that thinks her strange for not being interested in a better career or dating and marriage. This book really lays bare the unspoken — yet strictly observed and punishing — societal expectations that push people to strive for a typical upper middle class life, with discontent of the present and a desire to reach some higher next level of wealth and status as the only acceptable norm. Loved this strange and bold book so much I read it in a day.

The Mars Room by Rachel Kushner (Scribner, 2018)

“Looking at someone who is looking at you was a drug as strong as any other.”
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A woman is in prison with two consecutive life sentences. The story starts there — and unwinds with the backstory of her growing up poor and neglected in the shitty area of San Francisco, making a living as a stripper — plus her present day life in prison where she tries to work any angle she can to figure out what’s happened to her son. It’s grittier than Orange Is the New Black — more dispassionate, more visceral, more lonely. Loved this book and can’t wait for the next one by Kushner.

The End of Eddy by Édouard Louis, Trans. Michael Lucey (FSG, translated into English 2017)

“People talk as if what makes it hard to run away is that you feel homesick or that you are attached to people or to other aspects of your life, but no one mentions that it can be hard to do because you simply don’t know how to do it.”
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A riveting novel about a boy growing up gay and impoverished in a tiny working class French town where men are hard drinking toughs, women babymaking caretakers. A town riddled with alcoholism, domestic violence, and some really painful bullying — based very much on the real life experiences of the author, who was born in 1992. It’s a really different view of life in France than you get from urbane stories set in Paris.

Jesus’ Son by Denis Johnson (FSG, 1992)

“Some of the most terrible things that had happened to me in my life had happened in here. But like the others I kept coming back.”
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People have been recommending Jesus’ Son to me for years — and now I know why. These stories follow lost men — drug addicted, alcoholic, down and out men living chaotic, grasping lives — that still have an odd wide-eyed, schizophrenic kind of charm. Read the book to be transported to a surreal sort of hell that’s half dream, half the hallucinatory underside of America.

My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh (Jonathan Cape, 2018)

“The notion of my future suddenly snapped into focus: it didn’t exist yet. I was making it, standing there, breathing.”
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Ottessa Moshfegh is one of my favorite writers and her new novel didn’t disappoint. For a story about a depressed, disconnected girl who decides to sleep a year away on heavy duty tranqs to “heal” after her distant parents die, it’s a pretty hilarious romp of a book. The ending which coalesces around Sep. 11 was oddly uplifting.

I’ll Tell You in Person by Chloe Caldwell (Coffee House Press, 2016)

“I sometimes wonder what would have happened had I not published that essay collection, because almost all of my best friends, and everyone I’ve slept with since then, I met through that book.”
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Should I write an essay collection? Loved this one by Chloe — intimate and freewheeling and hilarious stories that run the gamut, from going to the homes of random craigslist guys who’ve agreed to buy her steak to snorting heroin to cope with really bad cystic acne. I still don’t get why you wouldn’t just meet the guys who’ve agreed to buy you steak at a steakhouse, which makes me think maybe I have too pragmatic a brain to write crazy essay collections like this one.

Motherhood by Sheila Heti (Harvill Secker, 2018)

“I know I cannot hide from life; that life will give me experiences no matter what I choose.”
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To have a child or not — a woman nearing 40 tries to figure it out, interrogating her own desires, ambitions as a writer, hopes, FOMO — and alongside them, the pressures put on by the culture at large, her friends, her lover. I love how Heti lays bare the often unspoken pressures put on and assumptions made about women who choose not to have children — and the honest vulnerability with which she details her own sense of uncertainty.

Fire Sermon by Jamie Quatro (Grove Press, 2018)

“I admit that unless something is forbidden I cannot want it with any intensity.”
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On the surface Fire Sermon is about a married woman who has a few brief assignations with a man married to someone else. Beneath that plot is a gorgeous work about desire and longing and obsession and writing and memory and sin and sublimation and time. Loved this book — reminded me a bit of Lydia Davis’ The End of the Story and Elizabeth Ellen’s Person(a).

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Brittany Ackerman on the closurelessness of experience

Every month, I interview an author I admire on her literary firsts.

Do you need distance and perspective to write about an experience honestly, meaningfully? Does writing about an experience provide closure — some sense of finality to memories and ideas you’ve been wrestling with?

Many writers say yes. Brittany Ackerman says no. And her new memoir-in-essays, The Perpetual Motion Machine, has that sometimes exhilaratingly freeing, sometimes out-of-control frightening sense of life continually continuing on — with no tidy lessons or endings. Life hurtles on — will keep hurtling on — so why not write about it now?

Read on for Brittany’s thoughts on living and writing and never being over anything. And don’t miss her book launch at Book Soup on Dec. 7, 7 pm — I’ll be reading with her, as will Nicelle Davis! Hope to see you there.

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Siel: At long last, your book is (almost) out! Has the completion and publication of this book brought some sense of closure — or changed your relationship to or thoughts about your past experiences in any way?

Brittany: Rather than closure, I feel the upcoming pub date has made me rethink the past.  I just recently heard a great quote from Orson Welles, “No story has a happy ending unless you stop telling it before it’s over.”  I think a lot of readers might want more of a “happy ending” to my book, but the truth is that the issues and emotional turmoil are still happening, will probably always be happening, and I will always be trying to make sense of it in my stories and with my words.

Did you have any concerns along the lines of having enough / too much distance from your experiences to write about them as you worked on TPMM?

I started the book as my graduate school thesis project and my family dilemma was still in full swing.  I was highly encouraged and motivated by my thesis chair, Dr. Becka McKay, to write through it, not around it.  Some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten.  It was a lot of me crying at Panera and typing out things I didn’t want to admit, but I think those parts might be what people will relate to, cling to, because they’re real.  I don’t think we need to be “over” something before we write about it.  I think we need to wrestle with it on the page.  The reader is always in the middle of something, so we should be too.

How did you come to the decision to write your memoir in short essays? Is it something that just happened naturally, or was this a more conscious decision on your part?

I contemplated fictionalizing the stories, but at the end of the day all these things happened.  It’s told from my point of view, so it’s fair to say it’s my perspective on the trials and tribulations, but that’s why I tried not to implement too much opinion on my behalf.  Rather, I wanted to make a collection that where you could read any one essay at a time or all of them together.  The center of the book, the heart of it, the troubled siblings, that’s the thread.

What are your favorite memoirs and essay collections? Have they influenced your own work?

Jo Ann Beard’s The Boys of My Youth was the impetus of my writing life.  Once I read that, I thought, “Oh, this is what I want to do now.”  I tried to emulate her child-voice and her urgency in my own memoir.  Some more: Jeanette Walls “The Glass Castle,” Davy Rothbart “My Heart is an Idiot,” Nick Flynn, “Another Bullshit Night in Suck City.”  Also a total fangirl for Sarah Manguso The Guardians.  I’m sort of working on something now that is an epistolary to a friend I had that passed away a few years ago, very much influenced by her.

Will there be a sequel memoir?

I’m hoping to translate TPMM into a screenplay someday.  As for the future, I’m really interested in the town where I spent a lot of time as a young adult, Delray Beach, FL, the recovery capital of the U.S.  I’ve been writing a lot about the city, the people and relationships I encountered over the years.  Hoping to get some time to workshop and continue working on my craft in 2019, building and finding strength in the writing community.

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The Perpetual Motion Machine by Brittany Ackerman — October giveaway

*** Winner selected! Congratulations to Melanie in Allegan, Mich.! ***

Growing up, I wished I had an older brother — The cool, reckless kind that took me along on his crazy adventures and introduced me to new, adult things I didn’t yet know about — and also the protective kind that took me under his wing and made sure nothing bad happened to me.

Those idealized yet contradictory qualities — Is it possible to find both in one brother? Desirable? That’s what I thought about while reading Brittany Ackerman’s brief memoir-in-essays, The Perpetual Motion Machine.

This book tells the story of Brittany and her older brother Skyler’s childhood — a fairly idyllic, placid upbringing, punctuated by sudden moments of crisis, like when the siblings’ mom goads young Skyler to ice skate faster and faster, until he crashes and busts up his face.

And then, of course, the kids start growing up. Skyler finds drugs and addiction, with Brittany following suit — except Brittany finds her way back while Skyler falls further into depression, repeatedly threatening suicide.

The Perpetual Motion Machine was the winner of the Red Hen Press 2017 Nonfiction Award, and comes out on Nov. 20, 2018! The Los Angeles launch reading happens at Book Soup on Dec. 7, 2018 — when I and Nicelle Davis will join Brittany to celebrate her new book. Hope to see you there!

I’m giving away a copy of The Perpetual Motion Machine to one of my readers! All current email subscribers will be automatically entered to win the copy. Subscribe now if you’re not yet getting my occasional newsletters. The giveaway closes Nov. 20, 2018 at 11:59 pm PST. US addresses only.

Come back later this month to read an interview with Brittany Ackerman.

See you at Book Soup 10/25

If you have a literary sweet tooth, come to Book Soup next Thursday for the launch of Tammy Lynne Stoner’s novel Sugar Land! I’ll be reading with her — as will Jillian Lauren, author of New York Times bestseller Some Girls: My Life in a Harem.

What: Tammy Lynne Stoner, with Jillian Lauren and Siel Ju (Facebook event page)
When: Thursday, October 25, 2018, 7 pm
Where: Book Soup, 8818 Sunset Blvd., West Hollywood, Calif.

Sugar Land tells the story of Dara, a Southern girl in the 1920s who has a brief love affair with her girlfriend Rhodie — then decides to hide her lesbianism by exiling herself as a cook in a men’s prison. The beginning’s pretty grim but overall the novel tells a funny and exuberant tale of a woman’s long coming of age story.

Come hear Tammy read it in person — and say hi to me too! There will be an after-party at the Grafton hotel —

Anne-Marie Kinney says the valley is teeming with mystery

Every month, I interview an author I admire on her literary firsts.

What comes first, the setting or the plot? I thought this was a good question for Anne-Marie Kinney, who with Sara Finnerty puts together the fantastic Griffith Park Storytelling Series. These readings are held in various beautiful settings in the park ranging from the bat caves to the shade of pretty trees — and  getting to, enjoying, and departing from each of them always makes for a fun plot to recount to friends —

Anne-Marie’s new book, Coldwater Canyon, comes out this Thursday, Oct. 4. Read on to hear Anne-Marie’s thoughts on book trailers, indie presses, and the valley.

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Siel: Why Coldwater Canyon? Did the setting come before the story – or the story determine the setting?

Anne-Marie: The setting came first. The San Fernando Valley of this book is a composite of different valley neighborhoods I’ve lived and hung out in. I was inspired by the valley’s quirks and how it’s a place that feels like a secret right under the nose of Los Angeles. I paid a lot of attention to strip malls and parked vans. The valley is teeming with mystery.

I inserted Coldwater Canyon into the book because I used to walk my dog down it, alongside a section of the L.A. River where you’d really have to lean over the fence to see if there was any water down there at all. It’s a long street that runs from Sun Valley all the way through Beverly Hills, so to me it kind of represented the gamut of Shep’s L.A. experience.

I love how you’re able to capture the voice of Shep, a Gulf War veteran suffering from PTSD. Was writing from a male viewpoint a challenge for you – or something that came pretty naturally?

Characters always start from the outside in for me. An image of someone will pop into my head and I’ll feel compelled to think them into fully realized person. I imagined a sort of grizzled guy walking a little dog down the street on a windy day, and that became the opening scene of the book. Once more details about him started to gel in my mind, I started reading books about Gulf War Syndrome so I’d have some knowledge to base him on.

Writing a male protagonist didn’t feel unusual. It felt natural to inhabit him. My favorite moments in writing are when I can feel a character in my body. It’s a kind of high, where the borders between my self and another self blur.

I really enjoyed the book trailer for your first book, Radio Iris (above). Do you think you’ll create one for Coldwater Canyon? And what advice do you have for writers who are wondering whether or not to make a book trailer?

I wanted to make a book trailer for Radio Iris (conceived and directed by Pete Larsen with a score by Nathan Budde) because it seemed like the thing to do in 2012 and I had talented friends who could make it happen. It was my first book, and it seemed like every other book coming out then had a trailer, so I thought I should have one too.

I liked how it turned out and it was fun, but I don’t plan on doing one for Coldwater Canyon. Are people still doing book trailers? I can’t remember the last time I saw one. I feel like they were in vogue for a while but are no longer considered essential. I think an author should only make one if it’s purely for fun.

You’ve published two novels with two different indie presses, Two Dollar Radio and Civil Coping Mechanisms. Have the experiences been largely similar or largely different?

The experience has been fairly similar. In both cases I was only working with one or two people, who really got the book and seemed to care about it as much as I did. There’s definitely a comfort in having just a couple of people to talk about everything with, from edits all the way to promotion.

What are you working on next?

I’m working on another novel, tentatively titled Sinking Feeling, about a long estranged mother and daughter reunited by a series of catastrophes. It’s a little too messy at this point to go further into what it’s “about,” but I’ve been researching climate change, brain tumors, buried treasure and doomsday preppers.

Photo by Rachael Warecki

Coldwater Canyon by Anne-Marie Kinney — September giveaway

*** Winner selected! Congratulations to Ryan in San Diego, Calif.! *** 

A thing about Los Angeles: Even after you’ve lived in this metropolis for decades, there are areas that will remain entirely foreign to you — even while they feel vaguely familiar because you’ve driven through them a bunch of times. I can conjure up an image and aesthetic and stereotypes of many L.A. neighborhoods without having any real clear sense of what it might be like to live there.

Which is to say — If you’re curious about what it might be like to live in the valley, pick up Anne-Marie Kinney’s Coldwater Canyon. Of course, this novel describes one unique person’s  experience of the valley — Shep, a former Midwesterner who landed in Los Angeles after serving in Desert Storm, who suffers from Gulf War syndrome and lives off his disability checks while hanging out with a buddy at a liquor store and stalking a girl he believes to be his daughter.

Sleepy strip malls with failing stores that serve as fronts for shadier businesses, wide and empty sidewalks punctuated by the occasional grocery cart-pushing denizen, some mute and benign, others loud and frightening. Coldwater Canyon takes you all over Los Angeles, really, from a line of actors signing up to serve as extras on TV shows, to a tiny theater hosting an experimental theater piece, to a well-secured studio lot, guards running around with headpieces.

The novel comes out from Civil Coping Mechanisms on October 4, 2018, and I’m giving away a galley copy of Coldwater Canyon to one of my readers! All current email subscribers will be automatically entered to win the copy. Subscribe now if you’re not yet getting my occasional newsletters.

For a second chance to win, comment on this post below, recommending your favorite exit off the 101 — or any other freeway. The giveaway closes September 30, 2018 at 11:59 pm PST. US addresses only.

Come back later this month to read an interview with Anne-Marie Kinney.